The top Sado-Maso accessories for a gentle introduction to BDSM
BDSM can be practiced in a number of ways and sex toys and accessories are a great help in stimulating this sexual act. In this article, we present the main accessories for beginners and people who want to start in the adventure of BDSM.
Handcuffs to tie up his / her submissive
Handcuffs are the most accessible SM toy you can buy if you are new to BDSM. People who practice BDSM are not the only ones to buy this toy because couples who have never had SM experiences also buy this accessory. Handcuffs are for example used during foreplay because they are easy to attach and can be used in many ways.
For example, you can tie your partner or submissive to your bed, especially if you have a crib. But you can also ask him to kneel before you get down on the ground and put his hands behind his back.
Handcuffs are made to take control of a person and there are thigh, hanging, ankle or special bed cuffs.
The candle and the wax
An SM candle is a candle specially designed to be used for an SM game. The masochist appreciates the sensation of the hot drops on his skin. The sadist particularly appreciates the mixture of fear and hope in the eyes of the submissive. SM candles are a great addition to a master’s or mistress’s foreplay. You can also use a regular candle, but the downside is that not all candles are suitable for a BDSM scene. Candles can be used on all parts of the submissive. The only thing to pay attention to is to avoid the face and pay attention to body hair. You can shave the hair on the body parts you want to play with beforehand to prevent the hair from burning the skin. However, let your partner know in advance and find out about the sensitivity of their skin. Skin that quickly gets sunburned may also be less tolerant of candle wax.
The tickler to tickle parts of the body
The Tickler is the ultimate SM toy to start with. Indeed, the soft feathers, the soft colors, the sensual look make this accessory look innocent, but don’t let its appearance fool you! The tickler makes you very sensitive to a certain area of your body. The continuous caresses and tickles give you goosebumps and, combined with the attachment, can be experienced as arousing. If, as a Master, you don’t find this torture enough, you can also play hitting the titillated area by giving or even with a whip.
Masks to give yourself a role.
SM masks can be divided into two different categories: basic masks and animal head masks that can be used during SM role play. The base models are the models that usually only cover the eyes in a sexy way.
A mask is often used in combination with a pair of handcuffs and a whip or even a tickler. If you put on an SM mask, your vision is completely lost and this aims to awaken your other senses. This makes every touch, regardless of the toy used, very sensitive.
The whip to take control
A whip is an object that can be recognized by the strands or thongs at the end of this toy. Of all the SM accessories, the whip is the most suitable for starting out as an inexperienced BDSM person. This type of whip is designed to induce endorphins in the submissive person. The whip is used to stroke and hit the body in the same place for a longer period of time, usually on the back. Tension builds up slowly and the submissive is put at ease with long strokes. The intention is not to start hitting like crazy as Dominant. This is not only uncomfortable for your submissive, but also for the knocker, who cannot take it for a longer period of time.